3/20/2016
[ Life ]
I understand that life is a journey, in which different people come and go along with you and then leave. Yes i do understand that. It's just that despite of understanding it, i feel terrible whenever someone leaves "our" journey, either voluntarily or involuntarily.
I AM trying hard to live the fullest of my life, just that no matter how much i wish not to leave regrets either on things not done, words not spoken, love not shown, i feel regretted still from time to time, that what if i did something differently would there be a turnaround.
[ 比較 ]
很多人花了一輩子在跟別人比較。
小時候比誰字認的多,跑得快,長的高 (喔對了,還有一種說法是,如果是女生,還不能長的"太高",免得讓男生有壓力)。大了一點,比誰成績好,念什麼學校。等到出了社會,繼續比誰先結婚、生小孩。再過幾年,改比誰的小孩跑得快、長的高、成績好、念什麼學校、交到什麼男女朋友。
好不容易老了,還要比什麼時候可以抱孫子孫女。等比得差不多了,最後比誰血壓血糖低、吃得藥少,誰還走得動。
比較好累阿! 永遠有人字認的比你多,跑得比你快,長的比你高(又不會太高),成績比你好....blablabla 而且為什麼沒有人告訴我,比較這麼多,究竟是為了什麼??